Are you a horrible conversationalist? When it comes to talking to women you just blank out? Most of the time you approach a woman with conversation, and usually you end up making things awkward and uncomfortable. When she walks away deep down inside your actually relieved. That’s sad! The key to talking to a woman is not bringing up your common interests or talking about work. The key to talking to a woman is to bypass her forward thinking and touch her emotional side. See women do 100% of their thinking with their emotions, they are not logical creatures they act on pure emotion alone. Knowing this you now are able to take advantage of this fact, you see women have a flirty side inside of them that is hidden. They love there flirty side, they want to bypass all the bull and cut straight to some on-site flirting. Not just any type of flirting but smalltalk. By making small talk sexy you can entice women in a way in which you can cut pass all the pre-conversational bull and get straight to her flirtatious side. By activating the three portals of the triangle of flirtation you can put a woman’s emotions on autopilot. First of all she has to be having fun that’s number one, if she associates being with you to fun then you’ve already scored an amazingly great goal. The song girls just want to have fun, is of course true that's why they want to pick someone that they have the best time with. You have to dig deep down and get past your anxiety therefore you can be comfortable around this woman.